Several rules for one night hookup

Never be with a man with racial prejudice. This rule applies to all my black comrades and other colored comrades. I believe you have heard such words before: "I usually don't date blacks, but you are an exception", or "you are very interested in blacks." What does this mean? Does anyone really think this is a kind of praise? Should I jump up, and be a man, just because of his prejudice in remote areas, is this all right? I do not think so. In other words, don't make a big noise. Don't try to promote racial sensitivity to him. Don't you explain yourself to a donkey? Just drink your wine and say "good evening" or "good day" to him. Then hookup with someone who doesn't say this nonsense or call you "exotic".

Don't associate with stupid people on dating apps. For a smart guy, in addition to talking about some gossip about your neighbor or some celebrities, he can talk to people about something elegant and profound, which is really a very sexy thing. He doesn't necessarily have a Ph.D. in some area, but he must at least discuss current events, news and political topics. If he can't talk to you about these topics, he probably won't be silent in the bedroom. Save your brain cells and yarns to find the next pursuer.

If he looks weird or creepy, assume he is a serial murderer. Listen to your instinct. If a man looks cold, don't go home with him. This may not be that way because he is trying to be a mysterious person, or a hipster, or different, he may be tempting you, not in a sexy and funny way.

If you don't want to hookup with a friend finder, or if you are not interested in him, then don't. It’s good for everyone. They are not worth it. There is no reason to do it just because he wants you and you don't want him to come back. Moreover, if you are not good to him, he may go everywhere to tell everyone that he is going to bed with you and you are very poor in bed. You can avoid this by smiling, thank him for his compliments in good faith, and then make excuses for yourself to continue drinking with friends.

Have fun, be yourself, be safe! It looks like the three rules are together, but it is not. If you can be yourself, then you can have fun, and if you can find fun, then you can find hope. Although it sounds crazy, having one night hookup with strangers is a great way to explore your sexual orientation and find out what you like and what you don't like. Don't take the date too seriously, because the other person will definitely not. Smile, drink, have a happy, safe date!